Referees are essential to the game of rugby. Without them, we simply wouldn’t be able to play. Here’s a look at the responsibilities of a rugby referee and some key guidelines for players, coaches, and supporters.

Key Responsibilities of a Rugby Referee

Ensuring Fair Play
Referees are responsible for ensuring that each match is played fairly and according to the laws of the game. They must make impartial decisions and enforce the rules consistently.

Prioritising Player Safety
Player safety is a top priority. Referees work to identify and penalise dangerous play, ensure players receive appropriate medical attention when injured, and stay vigilant for any foul play, taking corrective action as needed.

No Referee, No Game
Always remember without referees, there is no rugby.

Who Are the Referees?
At our level, referees are dedicated volunteers. They come from all walks of life, including:

Coaches
Parents (mums and dads)
Other players
Society referees

All referees deserve our respect for their commitment and dedication.

Do’s and Don’ts

Do’s

Welcome the referee when they arrive at the club or pitch.
Offer to run touch if you’re able and interested.
Thank the referee after the game, with a friendly approach and a smile.
Ask questions if you’re uncertain about certain calls, but remember they may not recall every specific play.
Offer them a drink after the match in the clubhouse—it’s a gesture that goes a long way.

Don’ts

Do not enter the field unless invited by the referee; this can lead to a starting sanction of a 20-week ban.
Do not shout at the referee over a decision.
Avoid negative comments about their performance. Keep opinions to yourself to prevent escalating tensions.
Do not approach the referee during the game or immediately after the whistle. Instead, wait and approach them calmly if you wish to discuss the game.

Remember: Referees Are Human

Referees are human, and they will make mistakes. What might seem clear to you from the side lines might not be as clear from their perspective. They’re monitoring the ball, 30 players, the offside line, scrums, lineouts, and anticipating what happens next—often from a challenging angle.

Laws can change, and in youth rugby especially, the focus is on safe, enjoyable play. Sometimes minor infringements may be overlooked in favour of keeping the game flowing.

And while they may not be international players, referees deserve to enjoy the game too. Let’s allow them to officiate with a smile!

After the Game: Conduct in the Clubhouse

Sanctions can be applied after the game and within the clubhouse. These include red cards and penalties for match official abuse.

If emotions run high following a call or a result, take a moment, walk away, and remember that the outcome won’t change. If you have questions, approach respectfully, and remember that referees make hundreds of calls over an 80-minute game—they’re unlikely to recall each one in detail.

Most importantly, remember referees are volunteers who give up their time to support the sport. Let’s show our appreciation and respect for their dedication.

Author, Danny Hitchcock, Club Chairman